Tuesday, December 27, 2011

good thought

Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

good thought

अगर हम बेलगाम & मनचाहा बोलेंगे तो हमें वह सुनना भी पड़ेगा जो हम नहीं सुनना चाहते, धर्म अनुसार हमारी वाणी सूत्रात्मक, स्नेहात्मक और 




शास्त्रात्मक हो, अगर वाणी में एकाग्रिता & अनुशाशन हो तो जीवन में संभल आता है..एक भक्त था ,वोह बिहारी जी को बहुत मानता था ! एक दिन वोह श्री भगवान को कहने लगा"मैं आपको बहुत मानता हूँ ,पर आज तक मुझे आपकी अनुभूति नहीं हुई !आप चाहे मुझे दर्शन न दे ,लेकिन कुछ ऐसा करे कि मुझ को अनुभव हो कि आप हो ! तब श्री भगवान ने कहा कि.. ठीक है तुम रोजाना सुबह समुन्द्र किनारे सैर करने जाते हो ,जब भी तुम रेत पर चलोगे तुम को चार पैरों के निशान दिखाई देंगे ! दो तुम्हारे होंगे और दो मेरे ! और इस ...तरह तुमको मेरी अनुभूति भी हो जाएगी ! अगले दिन से वास्तव में ही ऐसा होने लगा और वो भक्त बहुत खुश हुआ !अब रोज़ ऐसा होने लगा ! समय हमेशा एक जैसा नहीं रहता ,भक्त को व्योपार में असीम घाटा हुआ और और वोह सड़क पर आ गया ! अपनों ने भी साथ छोड़ दिया ! दुनिया की यही रीत है,मुसीबत में अपने भी साथ छोड़ देते हैं ! वोह जब भी सैर पर जाता ,उसको दो पैर ही दिखाई देते ,वोह सोचता की श्री भगवान ने भी मुसीबत में साथ छोड़ दिया ! धीरे धीरे उसने व्योपार को फिर से स्थापित किया ,काम ठीक होने लगा ,फिर पहले जैसी हालत हो गयी,जो साथ छोड़ गए थे वोह फिर वापिस आने लग गए यह भी दुनिया की रीत है ! अब जब वोह सैर पर गया तो फिर उसको चार पैर दिखाई दिए ........श्री भगवान भी लौट आये ,यही उसकी सोच बनी ! उस से रहा नहीं गया उसने श्री भगवान से पूछ ही लिए"बुरे वक्त में तो साथ सबने छोड़ दिया ,यह दुनिया की रीत है, मुझको इस बात का कोई दुःख नहीं ! लेकिन आप भी साथ छोड़ जायेंगे ,ऐसा नहीं सोचा था, आपने ऐसा क्यों किया ? तब श्री भगवान ने कहा कि.."तुमने यह कैसे सोच लिया कि मैं तुमारा साथ छोड़ दूंगा ! तुम्हारे बुरे वक्त में ,तुम जो दो पैरों के निशान देखते थे ,वो तुम्हारे पैरों के नहीं होते थे,बल्कि वो मेरे पैरों के होते थे ! उस समय मैं तुमको अपनी गोद में उठा कर चलता था! और आज जब तुम्हारा बुरा वक्त ख़त्म हो गया है तो मैंने तुम्हे निचे उतार दिया है !इसलिए तुम्हे फिर से चार पैर दिखाई देने लग गए हैं







Friday, December 16, 2011

thoughts of the day

Beauty as we feel it is something indescribable;
what it is or what it means can never be said.




Some ppl come into your life as a blessing and others come into your life as a lessons!

father and son


A Fathers n Son Story ♥ Must read dis Every son ♥
There once lived a rich businessman who had a lazy and fun loving son. The businessman wanted his son to be hard-working and responsible. He wanted him to realize the value of labour. One day he summoned his son and said: "Today, I want you to go out and earn something, failing you won't have your meals tonight."

The boy was callous and not used to any kind of work. This demand by his father scared him and he went crying straight to his mother. Her heart melted at the sight of tears in her son's eyes. She grew restless. In a bid to help him she gave him a gold coin. In the evening when the father asked his son what he had earned, the son promptly presented him the gold coin. The father then asked him to throw it into a well. The son did as he was told.

The father was a man of wisdom and experience and guessed that the source of the gold coin was the boy's mother. The next day he sent his wife to her parent's town and asked his son to go and earn something with the threat of being denied the night meals if he failed. This time he went crying to his sister who sympathized with him and gave him a rupee coin out of her own savings. When his father asked him what he had earned the boy tossed the rupee coin at him. The father again asked him to throw it in a well. The son did it quite readily. Again the father's wisdom told him that the rupee coin was not earned by his son. He then sent his daughter to her in-laws' house. He again asked his son to go out and earn with the threat that he shall not have anything for dinner that night.

This time since there was no one to help him out; the son was forced to go to the market in search of work. One of the shopkeepers there told him that he would pay him two rupees if he carried his trunk to his house. The rich man's son could not refuse and was drenched in sweat by the time he finished the job. His feet were trembling and his neck and back were aching. There were rashes on his back. As he returned home and produced the two rupee note before his father and was asked to throw it into the well, the horrified son almost cried out. He could not imagine throwing his hard-earned money like this. He said amid sobbing: "Father! My entire body is aching. My back has rashes and you are asking me to throw the money into the well."

At this the businessman smiled. He told him that one feels the pain only when the fruits of hard labour are wasted. On earlier two occasions he was helped by his mother and sister and therefore had no pain in throwing the coins into the well. The son had now realized the value of hard work. He vowed never to be lazy and safe keep the father's wealth. The father handed over the keys of his shop to the son and promised to guide him through the rest of the life.

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

thought of the day



Give, but do not allow yourself to be used; Love, but do not allow your heart to be abused; Trust, but do not be naive; Listen to others, but do not lose yourself.

Have you ever thought that tears are more precious than Smiles ?
You may smile for anyone,
but you would not cry for any one unless that person really touched your heart.


Monday, December 12, 2011

jokes

A long married couple came upon a wishing well. 
The wife leaned over, made a wish and threw in a penny. 
The husband decided to make a wish too. But he leaned over too much, fell into the well, and drowned.

The wife was stunned for a moment but then smiled & said, “Ohh my gud, it works!”Wife:Kaash main newspaper hoti dinbhar tumhare hathon me
rehti 
Hubby:Meri bhi yahi dua hai rab se,issi bahane har




din nayi nayi toh miltiEk admi ne sadhu se kaha , meri biwi bahut pareshan karti hai, koi upaay bataiye . 
Sadhu bola , saale, Upaay hota to main sadhu kyoon banta?.








Saturday, December 10, 2011

sweet innocent mesg

A sweet n innocent msg:..

in a nursery school canteen, there was a basket of apples with a notice written on it

" dont take more than 1 God is watching".
... ... ...
On the other counter there was a box of choclates , a small child went and wrote on it

"take as many as u want, God is busy watching apples"

choose your carrier

‎10 year Income:-)
Teacher 30 Lakh
Engnr 40 Lakh
Doctor 80 Lkh
IAS 5 Cr
... Sanyasi (Ramdev) 1177Cr
Stya Sai Baba 40000 Cr
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-:SO,CHOOSE YOUR CAREER CAREFULLY:-

possitive thinking

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. 
She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. 
She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.' 

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

He asked her,'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?'
The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left her in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes.
Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.

Friday, December 9, 2011

patience

patience and silence are two powerful energies..... patience makes u mentally strong.....and silence makes u emotionally strong‎"Patience 
is not about how long one can wait but how well one behaves while waiting.......



When time comes for u to give ur heart to someone,

make sure that u select someone who will never break ur heart,

cuz broken hearts has no spare parts..........:(

Thursday, December 8, 2011

thought of the day

Life should be measured, not by the number of years but rather by the love shared,the memories made, the blessings received and the joy given




Never waste time on someone who does not have time for you. be with someone who will say “time is wasted if I am not with you”




Love means to see someone with closed eyes,
to miss someone in crowd,
to find someone in every thought,
to live for someone,
love someone,
but make sure that someone is ONLY one!

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

joke

Once PVNR (PV Narasimha Rao), L.K.Advani and Laloo Prasad Yadav were travelling in an autorickshaw. They met with anaccident and all three of them died. Yama Raja was waiting for this moment at the doorstep of death.
He asks PVNR and Advani to go to HEAVEN.
But, for Laloo, Yama had already decided that heshould be sent to HELL. Laloo is not at all happy with this decision.
He asks Yama as to why this discrimination is being made. All the three of them had served the public. Similarly, all took bribes, all misused public positions, etc.
Then why the differential treatment?
He felt that there should be a formal test or an objective evaluation before a decision is made; and should not be just based on opinion or pre-conceived notions.
Yama agrees to this and asks all the three of them to appear for an English test.
PVNR is asked to spell " INDIA " and he does it correctly.
Advani is asked to spell " ENGLAND " and he too passes.
It is Laloo's turn and he is asked to spell " CZECHOSLOVAKIA ".
Laloo protests that he doesn't know English.
He says this is not fair and that he was given a tough question and thus forced to fail with false intent.
Yama then agrees to conduct a written test in Hindi (to give another chance assuming that Laloo should at least feel that Hindi would provide an equal platform for all three).
PVNR is asked to write "KUTTA BOLA BHOW BHOW". He writes it easily and passes.
Advani is asked to write "BILLY BOLI MYAUN MYAUN". He too passes.
Laloo is asked to write "BANDAR BOLA GURRRRRR.... ." Tough one. He fails again.
Laloo is extremely unhappy.
Having been a student of history (which the other two weren't), he now requested for all the 3 to be subjected to a test in history
Yama says OK but this would be the last chance and that he would not take any more tests.
PVNR is asked: "When did India get Independence ?". He replied "1947" and passed.
Advani is asked "How many people died during theindependence struggle? ".
He gets nervous. Yama asked him to choose from 3 options: 100,000 or 200,000 or 300,000. Advani catches it and says 200,000 and passes.
It's Laloo's turn now. ' ' ' ' ' ' '' ' ' ' ' ' ' ' ' ' ' ' '
' Yama asks him to give the Name and Address of each of the 200,000 who died in the struggle. Laloo accepts defeat and agrees to go to HELL.

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

thought of the day

Do what makes you happy
Be with who makes you smile
Laugh as much as u breathe
Love as long as you live

Sunday, December 4, 2011

memories

days passes by someone who was very close to u was never seen again. god decides destiny but he cannot erase the memories. i live in my memories

best story to respect ur parents

A father was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.
The Father asked his Son, "What is this?"
The Son replied "It is a crow".
After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time,"What is this?"
The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".
... ... After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time,
What is this?"
At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. "It's a crow, a crow".
A little after, the Father again asked his Son the 4th time, "What is this?"
This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"
A little later the Father went to hisroom and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the
son read it, the following words were written in the diary :-
"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I
hugged him lovingly each time he asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I ratherfelt affection for my innocent child".
While the little child asked him 23times "What is this", the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father askedhis Son the same question just 4
times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed..
So..
Moral- If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient,humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents. From today say this aloud,
"I want to see my parents happy forever"

Thursday, December 1, 2011

too good lines

Hum Hawa Nahi Jo Kho Jayenge,
Hum Waqt Nahin Jo Gujar Jayenge,
Hum Mausam Nahin Jo Badal Jayenge,
Hum To Aansu Hain Jo Khusi Aur Gum Dono Me Nzar Aynge…